Military Vets: Stop Saying ‘Thank You For Your Service’
Mike Freedman, a Green Beret, calls it the “thank you for your service phenomenon.” To some recent vets — by no stretch all of them — the thanks comes across as shallow, disconnected, a reflexive offering from people who, while meaning well, have no clue what soldiers did over there or what motivated them to go, and who would never have gone themselves nor sent their own sons and daughters…
Mr. Garth, 26, said that when he gets thanked it can feel self-serving for the thankers, suggesting that he did it for them, and that they somehow understand the sacrifice, night terrors, feelings of loss and bewilderment. Or don’t think about it at all.
“I pulled the trigger,” he said. “You didn’t. Don’t take that away from me.”
…The idea of giving thanks while not participating themselves is one of the core vet quibbles, said Mr. Freedman, the Green Beret. The joke has become so prevalent, he said, that servicemen and women sometimes walk up to one another pretending to be “misty-eyed” and mockingly say “Thanks for your service.”
h/t to fancypants who posted this in our off-topic thread.
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htmlgirl February 23rd, 2015 at 13:25
What’s worse is I’ve had people thank ME for my service, when I’m just married to a service member. I think some people don’t know what they can do specifically to help someone.
htmlgirl February 23rd, 2015 at 14:25
What’s worse is I’ve had people thank ME for my service, when I’m just married to a service member. I think some people don’t know what they can do specifically to help someone.