Marriages agreeing on ‘sex pass’

A large number of couples are giving each other a “sex pass.”

There are so many things that can affect a person’s libido; having children, stress, sleep deprivation, mental or physical health, body-image issues and, for many women, the menopause. It’s more than natural for it to have its own nuanced cycle for each individual, and even in some cases, completely disappear. A study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that 16 per cent of long-term couples, many aged 35 to 44, have “little or no” sex. A survey in February found that one in four couples over 50 never make love at all, however the ‘sexless seniors’ surveyed agreed that despite the apparently chilly nights, they were still happy with the companionship, conversation and humour that their relationship gave them.

The idea then of a ‘sex pass’, if one’s libido is out of sync with a partner’s, may be the logical conclusion to what is becoming a more common and openly talked state of affairs for many couples. Those who are willing to widen their parameters of fidelity to suit their needs may be showing great bravery and tremendous love for each other. As long as both parties are completely happy with the arrangement and are always honest about it.

By: Alan

Alan Colmes is the publisher of Liberaland.